Monday, June 29, 2015

An American in Ireland: Gay Marriage and Moral Fundamentalism


Dear Readers,
First, I want to apologize that I am not able to write my reviews of Avengers: Age of Ultron or Daredevil this month.  Things have been pretty busy with writing my thesis and everything, and before I knew it, it is two days to the end of June and I still have not written anything for you lovely people.  So, in light of current events, I have decided to get a bit political in this post.  If you have no interest in politics, feel free to scroll down to some of my previous posts, and please come back next month, when I should be back to pop culture analysis.

As an American living in Ireland, over the last few months, I have been constantly exposed to conversations, facebook posts, articles, and videos advocating marriage equality.  After the Supreme court decision on Friday, it seems like this issue is the dominant topic of conversation for the majority of people in my friend circles, and I have come to realize that I am a part of a silent minority, afraid of speaking out in public circles for fear of recrimination from an intolerant majority.

So, I wanted to take this opportunity to break my silence on the issue of gay marriage, its legalization here in Ireland, and the recent Supreme Court decision legalizing it in the USA.  I know that this is a sensitive issue, and I do not mean for this post to be in any way hurtful to any of my friends who are on the opposite side of this issue.  This is me, working out my thoughts verbally, and trying to convey them to the other side.  I don’t think I will convince anyone, but perhaps I can help people be a little more open minded about the issue.

Before I start talking about marriage, I want to briefly discuss my views of homosexuality in general.  I am a Christian, and I believe that homosexual actions are sinful.  I can already hear the angry cries of “homophobe” and “bigot” that will accompany this statement, however, allow me to explain.  My faith requires me to believe in the Word of God as a source of Truth and a guideline for proper Christian behavior.  Also, from my studies of the Bible, I believe that there is a strong case for declaring homosexuality a sin.  There are two big conditions that I must attach to this statement.  First, there are many sins, and homosexuality is in no way “special” or “the worst.”  I believe an individual is just as likely to go to hell for gluttony or gossiping as they are for being gay.  Human nature is inherently fallen, and each individual has their own issues that will prevent them from being in perfect relationship with God.  That is why Christians believe we need Jesus, the only person to ever live a perfect life, to save us, because we cannot conquer our pride or selfishness or dishonesty without his power living in us.  This brings me to the second condition.  I believe that it is only the power of Christ that empowers to live a life free of sin.  Personally, I am still a flawed and sinful individual, despite having access to the power of the Holy Spirit.  I am still selfish, fearful, and proud.  If I, who has been redeemed by Christ, cannot continuously live according to the standard of Christian behavior, I have no right to expect those who reject the work of Christ to live according to those standards.  I cannot expect those who do not have Christ living in them to live a Christian life.

Homosexuality is not the first sinful behavior to be endorsed as good by our society, nor will it be the last.  Modern American culture encourages a level of consumption and gluttony that is appalling, adultery and heterosexual immorality are commonplace.  Lying is justified in the rush for personal advancement and theft is allowable as long as you don’t get caught.  It is not the end of the world to have society and governments endorsing an action that Christians ultimately believe to be immoral.

And this is where the issue of marriage equality becomes complicated for me.  Marriage, as we know it today, has a complex bundle of meanings, which are dominantly religious or political.  From the religious definition, I have trouble supporting the legalization of gay marriage.  Marriage is a sacrament in some churches, reflecting the relationship between Christ and his church.  To call a homosexual relationship, which Christian doctrine views as sinful, a marriage is to associate the name of Christ with that which He finds abhorrent.  Such a definition of marriage fundamentally questions the foundations of the Christian faith.  Thus, from the perspective of the religious definition of the term, of marriage as holy matrimony, I am opposed to legalizing gay marriage.

On the other hand, marriage is also a political term, a term that arises from the practice of government giving special benefits to two people who have institutionalized their relationship with each other in a recognized manner.  From this perspective, gay marriage should be legalized.  It is not the responsibility of a government to legislate morality, but the government does have a responsibility treat members of the society it governs equally.  Gay marriage should be legally recognized because heterosexual marriage is legally recognized.

Thus, when the marriage referendum passed by popular vote here in Ireland, I was no in any way upset.  Would I have voted yes?  Probably not, simply because of the dictates of my own conscience and problematic religious connotations of the term marriage.  However, the people of Ireland declared that they wished to preserve the equality of their citizens over a historic Christian morality, and that was completely acceptable.

Which brings me to the recent Supreme Court decision.  Having expressed my indifference for Ireland’s decision to legalize gay marriage, many people assume that I am equally indifferent to the process by which it was legalized in the USA.  The problem is the way in which this legalization occurred.  Under the US constitution, the role of the Supreme court is to interpret the law and the constitution.  This decision, however, was a blatant example of legislating from the bench.  The USA is a democratic republic! The power to make laws rests firmly in the hands of the congress, not of the Supreme Court.  By unilaterally declaring gay marriage to be legal in the United State, the Supreme Court is trampling the rights and expressed desires of the people of the various states.   This is a usurpation of power, power that should be designated to the individual states, and to the popular consensus of the people within the individual states, has been appropriated at a federal level, and worse, by the judicial system.  The five judges who voted to declare gay marriage legal in the states took upon themselves, an unelected, non-representative body, the authority to declare law in opposition to the expressed opinions of the majorities in a number of states.

Consider if the decision had been slightly different.  Imagine if the Supreme Court had ruled that, regardless of what the individual states might vote and decide, the federal government defines marriage as between a man and a woman, and for this reason, no individual state has the right to legalize gay marriage.  There would have been a huge public outcry against such a decision, because it would be seen as flying in the face of individual rights and democracy.  But the current decision, which violates the rights of states that have voted against gay marriage and the individual rights of freedom of religion and expression, has been viewed as an entirely positive and welcome development.

The assumptions behind this ruling are patronizing and bigoted, and the repercussions it will have throughout the states are disturbing.  This ruling rests on a series of unfortunate assumptions; first that Americans actually want this change in their laws, but thus far have been incapable of voting properly to express this desire.  This patronizing assumption questions the mental and political capability of the individual American citizen, and is an expression of an elitist mindset that is in fundamental opposition to the principles of democracy.  The second foundational assumption of the ruling is that everyone who disagrees with the ruling is entirely wrong to do so, and is morally bankrupt for professing such a belief in the light of current opinion on social equality.  This assumption is even more dangerous than the first, because it is the sort of bigoted fundamentalism that is usually only condemned in churches.  The thoughtless and unwavering assumption that “my opinion is the correct one” and the belief that the rightness of an opinion entitles one to act oppressively against the expressed wish of the people is a basic tenant of a dictatorship, not a democracy like the United States.

The tyrannical imposition of minority belief upon the majority of the American people has frightening implications for those who stand on the “wrong” side of these fundamentalists.  The enforced legalization of gay marriage has given an air of legitimacy to a despotic minority who will use their new protected status to oppress and silence anyone who disagrees with their opinion.  This has been the case in instances of businesses, who were sued after Christian owners refused service to homosexual couples on the basis of their religious beliefs.  The right of the business owners to practice their religion according to the dictates of their own conscience has been subsumed by radical fundamentalists who seek to use the government to impose their morality on anyone who might have a different opinion.  The very issue for which they condemned the Christian opposition has become the platform of the advocates of homosexual marriage.

I realize my tone may have gotten a bit strident toward the end of this post.  I am frustrated at the gross usurpation of power that I see in my nation at the moment, as the authority which is supposed to be allocated to the people through the states has been shifted to the federal government, and by the hypocrisy I see in those who oppose the imposition of Christian ideals upon non-Christians yet seek to legislatively enforce their own opinions on those who happen to disagree with them.  Ultimately, this is a complicated issue with many sides and opinions, and much of the vitriol and hatred seems to arise from those on both sides who are simply unable to consider the opinion and positions of those on the opposite side of the debate.  I hope that this post has presented something of an alternative viewpoint, again, not in the interest of convincing people to change their minds, necessarily, but rather, of demonstrating the complexity of opinion without reducing such an argument to a black and white dichotomy.

Well, that was a bit of a heavy post.  I have been thinking about writing something like this for a few months now, and the recent supreme court decision finally pushed me to get this finalized.  Hopefully I will be back to the fun stuff next month, and I hope to see you all then!

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